Let it go

A gen­tle­man not far from my house has a Fire­bird in his garage. It’s a shelf for things to rest on dur­ing their jour­ney to other des­ti­na­tions. And it har­bors a major dust collection.

My guess is that it’s a source of guilt for him. Every time he sees the car, he thinks, “This week­end, I’ll start ren­o­vat­ing it.” The week­end starts and he real­izes he has lots of other things to do. The week­end fin­ishes and the Fire­bird has been neglected. Again.

If I knew Mr. Fire­bird owner, I might sug­gest that he sell the car and give up that dream of restor­ing it. He’d then free up a slot in his garage — less snow removal on snowy morn­ings for the car in the dri­ve­way. He’d release some cash to be used in what­ever fun or wor­thy cause he can come up with. And the Fire­bird might end up being restored by the new owner.

My point? Give your­self per­mis­sion to get rid of that project you’ll never do.

I took the photo with my phone’s cam­era; thus the poor quality.

Comments

  1. Paul, CJ recently went through this thought process. Our Cadil­lac pretty much died — some­thing about a head gas­ket. (Ha, I don’t much about cars.) He thought for a while about mak­ing a project out of it. But now we’re going to sell it. He was able to fore­see the pic­ture you just painted with this Fire­bird. (We now have a beau­ti­ful 1994 Geo Prism to replace the Caddy — yay! Great gas mileage.)

  2. My good friend was in this sit­u­a­tion. He had a ’70 or ’71 Bar­racuda in his garage. He and his step­dad bought it when my friend was in high school in the 80s. It had been in a flood, so they had com­pletely stripped it, put all the parts in boxes, and he carted the whole thing around with him wher­ever he lived. He always intended to restore it, but finally life inter­vened: he got mar­ried, has a tod­dler, and ulti­mately decided it was time to let go. Last year he sold the car and all the parts, and I think it was ulti­mately a huge relief to him. As much as he dreamed of some­day restor­ing it, I think it had become an alba­tross around his neck!

  3. Johanna and Deb... great real-life examples.

    3 cheers for those will­ing to make the break from that “boat anchor.”

  4. Great post. Maybe a clas­sic MINI owner will see this and get inspired to sell me theirs...!

    On the other hand, maybe that Fire­bird is his son’s dream to fix it.

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