We are so small

We are so smallIt’s always good to get perspective.

Last week, we went to Colorado’s Great Sand Dunes National Park. It’s a dra­matic place — huge sand dunes are spread at the base of a larger chain of moun­tain peaks.

Thank­fully, the weather was per­fect. The wind was not blow­ing very much. The tem­per­a­ture was cool — our bare feet did not burn.

It’s always good to remem­ber just how small we are in the scope of things.

(That’s Heather in the mid­dle. Jay, Ben and Rachel are in the distance.)

Seasons

ForsythiaNairobi, Kenya, is not far from the equa­tor. We lived there for five years. Since the ele­va­tion is close to a mile high, the cli­mate is ideal — about 70 degrees (21c) year-around. But since the cli­mate allows for many peo­ple to live in very easily-built and rel­a­tively inex­pen­sive homes (mud walls and a tin roof), lots of peo­ple live there. Too many, in my hum­ble opin­ion. The city’s infra­struc­ture was built for about 300,000 — and roughly 4 mil­lion live there now.

Liv­ing fur­ther north or south neces­si­tates hav­ing solid insu­lated homes.

Back to sea­sons — I love four sea­sons. Spring is now fully here. The warm weather is such a relief after a long cold winter.

Change is a good thing.

Family skiing

On the chairlift at SolVistaHeather and I skipped work last Fri­day. We went ski­ing at SolVista. It’s a fam­ily ski area that’s not the clos­est to Den­ver, but still within easy dri­ving dis­tance of our home in the suburbs.

We had a great time. The slopes are gen­tle and smooth. Ben and I loved cruis­ing down one slope as fast as we could — repeat­edly. And it’s uncrowded, so we had no fears of any life-threatening accidents.

Rachel, our youngest, did fine, even though she hasn’t been ski­ing very much. She was able to drift through the trees and nav­i­gat­ing a fun course for kids that included ski­ing through a small “barn.” Jay, our old­est and most adven­tur­ous son, had fun doing sev­eral stunts in the ter­rain park.

I know a lot of hard-core skiers and snow­board­ers would turn their nose up at SolVista, but we loved it. If you’re ever in Col­orado and want to have some fam­ily ski­ing fun, SolVista’s the place.

And a final foot­note — so you can tell this is not a spon­sored post — if you have the cash for a ski condo, the com­pany that runs the resort way over­built, so you can get one for a rel­a­tive steal.

The Champs-Elysees

Alfa Romeo MitoLast sum­mer we went to Paris.

I don’t say that to brag. It was part of our visit to my sis­ter and her fam­ily, who live in Belgium.

Any­how, one after­noon, my old­est son Jay and I decided to stroll along the Champs-Elysees, a famous avenue in the city known for its roman­tic cafes and lux­ury spe­cialty shops.

Need­less to say, we didn’t sip cof­fee at a side­walk cafe. How­ever, we thor­oughly enjoyed vis­it­ing a Fiat/Lancia/Alfa Romeo shop/museum. (Jay is next to the won­der­ful Alfa Romeo Mito, a car that sadly won’t be mak­ing it to the USA.)

Arc De Triomphe wedding photoOne sur­real moment was see­ing scores of Chi­nese peo­ple get­ting wed­ding pic­tures taken in front of the Arc de Tri­om­phe.

The point of this story? My roman­tic dream of expe­ri­enc­ing The Champs-Elysees involved a leisurely brunch at one of those cafes. That didn’t hap­pen. What did hap­pen may have been even bet­ter — a fun after­noon with my son that we’ll prob­a­bly both remem­ber for the rest of our lives.

p.s. Heather and I did enjoy a roman­tic evening in Paris. We had dessert at a divey bar, not on the Champs-Elysees.

Anonymous photography

People I will never meetOne thing I love about pho­tog­ra­phy is that you can take pho­tos and have them for a while.

We took a long trip this sum­mer, and I’ve thor­oughly enjoyed look­ing at the pho­tos I took, over and over.

This fam­ily was in the Harrod’s Store in Lon­don. I will never know who they are. They will never know who I am. We will never meet. But I can won­der about what their lives might be like.

We saved for a long time

French restaurant receiptIt was going to be our great extrav­a­gant din­ner to end all din­ners. The atmos­phere was nice. Very French cafe. Very authentic.

We had saved all year long, putting the money toward one great event. (Yes, even the kids made sac­ri­fices.) We decided to have an ele­gant French din­ner. Heather had been inspired by a book writ­ten by Julia Child, describ­ing her years in Paris.

Huge dis­ap­point­ment. No baguette and but­ter as a warm-up. Ben’s entrée was the most expen­sive — and the worst. (I won’t even describe it.) The dessert was far less tasty than what we had at the pâtis­serie just down the street from where we stayed.

Alas.

Moral of the story? Don’t put all your hopes in one bas­ket. You may be dis­ap­pointed. And, be sure to read those guide books before you make a commitment.

And don’t worry, I gave them a really bad writeup on Google Maps.

You pay the price

Loveland Pass hike and traffic jamHeather, Jay and I went for a hike up at Love­land Pass, Col­orado, yes­ter­day. It was won­der­ful. (That’s the two of them in the snow, just off the trail — yes, and only a day before August.) We were cut short by thun­der­storms... It’s not nice to get hit by light­ning at 12,000.’

Any­how, though we live just 90 min­utes’ drive from that beau­ti­ful spot, we paid the price on the return... stop and go traf­fic for about 3 hours. (The traf­fic was stopped enough that I actu­ally got out of the car and stood up to take the lower photo.)

So nothing’s free.

The beauty of zoom

Sidewalk cafe in Paris (copyright Paul Merrill)I could have never got­ten this photo with my pre­vi­ous cam­era. This Sony has a 10x opti­cal zoom. Great for get­ting closer than I would otherwise.

(Side­walk cafes, dur­ing an evening in Paris.)

Relic of the past

This motor­cy­cle was made in about 1970 by a Ger­man com­pany, Mam­moth. When I was a kid, I got the book, Motor­cy­cles: Clas­sics and Thor­ough­breds. This lovely machine graced the cover. I love how it’s so ugly that it almost becomes beautiful.

From age three, I was into any­thing that had wheels. I still am. (Some things never change.)

I always thought it would be great fun to have a motor­cy­cle. How­ever, roughly half a life­time ago, I decided the poten­tial for los­ing my life or becom­ing dis­abled wasn’t worth the risk. Then my good friend Gary’s acci­dent con­firmed this decision.

So I’ll stick with my Lotus. (I wish.)

Remember what a privilege it is

This “Dis­cover Riches at Your Library” book­mark was given to my daugh­ter as part of a sum­mer read­ing pro­gram at our local library.

I remem­bered that in Nairobi, a city of about 4 mil­lion peo­ple, there are a few libraries. Most of them have old tat­tered books. There is not a selec­tion of the lat­est best sell­ers. There are no libraries at all in Kakamega, a city in west­ern Kenya with maybe 250,000 people.

So be thank­ful for what you have, peo­ple of “the west­ern world.”