Remember what a privilege it is

This “Dis­cover Riches at Your Library” book­mark was given to my daugh­ter as part of a sum­mer read­ing pro­gram at our local library.

I remem­bered that in Nairobi, a city of about 4 mil­lion peo­ple, there are a few libraries. Most of them have old tat­tered books. There is not a selec­tion of the lat­est best sell­ers. There are no libraries at all in Kakamega, a city in west­ern Kenya with maybe 250,000 people.

So be thank­ful for what you have, peo­ple of “the west­ern world.”

On making a difference

Steve with his wife and childOn Mon­day, I guest posted over at Let­ters from a Small State. If you’d like to read what I wrote, head over there. It’s a post that deals with a lit­tle more of my per­sonal jour­ney with Heather than I nor­mally write about.

Thank you Elizabeth!

Let her sleep

I have a story for you.

When Heather and I first went to Africa (1991), we were part of a 3-month-long train­ing pro­gram that was designed to help us love Africa. And adjust to liv­ing there. Part of our train­ing involved liv­ing with a fam­ily in rural Kenya for two weeks.

It was a stretch­ing time, to say the least. We still keep in touch with one of the fam­ily mem­bers — which shows you it was a good expe­ri­ence, overall.

Any­how, they ate din­ner start­ing at about 9 pm. We were pretty tired by that time of the day, and lis­ten­ing to lively con­ver­sa­tion in Kikamba (their lan­guage) for sev­eral hours was not always our choice of a relax­ing way to end the day.

So one night — about halfway into our two weeks with them — just before din­ner, Heather and I were chill­ing in our small room. Our guest knocked on the door to say it was din­ner­time. I went to din­ner alone. I said, “In our cul­ture, it is wrong to wake some­one when they are sleep­ing.” They bought it — after a lit­tle dis­cus­sion on my part.

I knew she needed a break.

Flashback Kenya

ruiru-01As some of my longer-term read­ers may recall, I lived 5 years in Kenya, East Africa.

Dur­ing my last two years there, I had a very chal­leng­ing role in admin­is­tra­tion. One day I took on a dif­fer­ent assign­ment — pho­tog­ra­pher. I vis­ited a facil­ity run by the Kenyan orga­ni­za­tion we part­nered with — the Ruiru Cen­tre. My pho­tos were to be used for pub­lic­ity pur­poses. (I’m not sure if they were ever used.)

That day was a nice break.

Nairobi vs. Denver

toyo-doorhandleThis lovely door han­dle broke. Toy­ota took almost two months to ship us a replace­ment. I thought that length of time was amazing.

Some­times the “west­ern world” has dis­ad­van­tages com­pared with the “devel­op­ing world”. If I had a bro­ken door han­dle with this same car in Kenya, I could have got­ten a replace­ment the same day. (Our Corolla is per­haps the most com­mon vehi­cle on their crowded roads.)

Hav­ing said that, if we had an obscure vehi­cle in Kenya, we could have waited a year for the replace­ment. One of the aspects of my job when we were there last was to advise peo­ple about which car to buy. I always said go for the most com­mon model... parts are eas­ier to get.

The prob­lem with hav­ing lived in a dif­fer­ent coun­try is that you can never expe­ri­ence the best of each place at once. I guess that is why there’s heaven to look for­ward to.

Flashback Friday

squirrel-tree

The other day, our dog was hav­ing fun chas­ing squir­rels up a tree. They love this par­tic­u­lar tree because of the tasty acorns it has been pro­duc­ing lately.

The funny thing was that as I heard the chat­ter­ing, I thought it was a mon­key. Briefly, I was back in Africa. Even though we lived in a crowded city of more than four mil­lion peo­ple (Nairobi), the occa­sional squir­rel would sneak into homes in our neigh­bor­hood to see what tasty treat they might find.

Fun Friday picture

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I miss Gideon. He was the groundskeeper for our apart­ment com­plex in Nairobi, Kenya.

Yes, he used a totally nat­ural palm branch as a broom to keep the dri­ve­way clean. Every day.

Flashback: Africa

treehouse-cassia

It was nearly four years ago when we started liv­ing in Nairobi, Kenya, Africa.

This tree­house was in our back­yard. Our neigh­bor, Roger Van Otter­loo, built this with and for his son. He was a real mis­sion­ary, in the tra­di­tional sense. He and his fam­ily built a life for them­selves in the heart of the jun­gle, so to speak — in the heart of Africa — Zaire (now Congo again). They left for the big city of Nairobi when civil war broke out — when they had to leave.

You would never know from the photo that we were about two miles from the city cen­ter. The tree, by the way, is an aca­cia — the quin­tes­sen­tial African tree.

If you want to read more about our life in Africa, kindly visit My Part of Nairobi.

Old but still active

expat-wives

My very first blog, My Part of Nairobi, was my chron­i­cle of life in that great city. We lived there from 2005–2007.

It still gets almost as many hits as my cur­rent blog, even though I haven’t updated it since we left. I guess peo­ple find that life more inter­est­ing than this.

Any­how, one of my favorite blogs is Africa Expat Wives Club. The author has an irrever­ant yet respect­ful look at life there. She and her fam­ily have cho­sen to stay, unlike us. So her blog chron­i­cles life there — many of the strug­gles and joys of an expat liv­ing in Kenya.

So I was check­ing my Google Ana­lyt­ics stats for that blog and noticed that I had received about 140 hits from her link to me, just in the last month. Pretty fun!