What I learned from community

sobcon-table

Over the week­end of May 1st, I attended SOB­Con, a social media con­fer­ence in Chicago. The high­light by far was “mas­ter­mind ses­sions” with the group at my table.

Becky, NEENZ, Sheila and Jon (not shown) were amaz­ing peo­ple to bounce ideas off of and learn from.

One pre­sen­ta­tion cov­ered our image and how impor­tant that is in our per­sonal and orga­ni­za­tional lives. We came to the con­cen­sus that it is impor­tant that oth­ers help you with any changes you need to make in that area. So we’re hold­ing each other account­able — by Twitter!

NEENZ shared that in her native Hawaii, the atti­tude is so laid back that it’s hard to change. Peo­ple accept you so much that they often pre­vent you from mak­ing any pos­i­tive change. (“Awww — you don’t need to change! You’re fine!”) We agreed that true friends (and true com­mu­nity) tell each other tough things — as well as affirm­ing things... “Speak the truth in love,” is what it says in Eph­esians 4:15 (from the Bible).

A spe­cial thanks to Robert, who I also met at the con­fer­ence, for this won­der­ful post idea.

Comments

  1. Account­abil­ity — now there’s a notion! Yikes, you guys got really seri­ous at SOB­Con! Glad I wasn’t at your table! :-D

    It’s good to be able to share with each other, isn’t it? That’s one of the hall­marks of a good — and healthy — com­mu­nity, I think.

    Hey, tip o’ the hat for the WILF entry, Paul!

    • admin says:

      Thank YOU, Robert!

      It was indeed a real plea­sure to meet you and con­nect. I wish we had more time together in Chicago. Maybe next time!

  2. Becky McCray says:

    We really were the awe­some table. :)

  3. Hi Paul, Thanks for this post, and for the good thoughts about account­abil­ity. Oddly enough, I have the oppo­site prob­lem from NEENZ — I’m way too dri­ven and obses­sive and need more peo­ple to talk me out of that!

    That’s why we had the Awe­some Table — great balance.

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